tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6670368.post116137456715425783..comments2010-07-05T13:13:13.834-06:00Comments on Queen of Swords: The long awaited body image postQueen of Swordshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13955744960051922025noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6670368.post-1161403640870380242006-10-20T22:07:00.000-06:002006-10-20T22:07:00.000-06:00Oddly enough, in the October recommended resourses...Oddly enough, in the October recommended resourses listing for the CBE, there is a Professional Library book called "The high achiever's guide to happiness." "Maybe I should buy that for Vanessa," was my thought yesterday. Today, after reading your blog, I *will* buy it for you. <BR/><BR/>Love and hugs, MomAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6670368.post-1161400415848435692006-10-20T21:13:00.000-06:002006-10-20T21:13:00.000-06:00Hmmm... Such heavy thoughts for a Friday night......Hmmm... Such heavy thoughts for a Friday night....<BR/><BR/>Well, I found what really helped me is Nathan telling me I was beautiful...repeatedly...for 6 years...and insisting that I say "yes I am" or "I know" or some other positive reinforcement. He was very strict. =D After a while you start to believe it.<BR/><BR/>Also, I've kind of gone on a bit of a fitness kick. So long as I'm fit and Sheilahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10642187508900100344noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6670368.post-1161381161843102402006-10-20T15:52:00.000-06:002006-10-20T15:52:00.000-06:00I'm not sure I can offer any stellar advice, excep...I'm not sure I can offer any stellar advice, except to say you're not alone. I look at the pics of me from the wedding and think "my head is colossal " and 40 other things I'd change about myself in a heartbeat. Like you said, 95% of women feel the same way. However, the important people know you as a kind, caring, beautiful, brilliant, incredible person. You should listen to us, we know better Apartment Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13563313620269963555noreply@blogger.com